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Tribute to

Emmy Spozio

7 september 1942 - 16 december 2023

A song she loved

This little corner by the log fire… One of her preferred seats
The crackling of burning wood as the only sound.
Her favorite pictures displayed.
She spent her last moments here.
Before going away thinking that she would still come back here for a long time…


Fly Emmy
You will be eternal down here.
We love you
 

Thanks

Dear friends,

We want to express our deep gratitude for your expressions of sympathy, support, and the shared memories, filled with a lot of emotions.

 

On December 19th, her family and close ones celebrated her exceptionally rich and fulfilling life, retracing her journey across three continents with amusing anecdotes and fondly viewed images.

 

Emmy has left an indelible mark on each of us with her bright philosophy of life, an infinite source of positivity and love. A lesson in serenity and tolerance. With her incredible vitality and radiant energy, until the very last moment she reminded us of the importance of savouring every moment.

 

She was a model of generosity and kindness. Let us not be sad and honor her legacy by continuing to embrace life with the same joy she embodied so wonderfully. 

❤️
 

With deep gratitude,
Emmy's family
 

"the train of my life"

by Jean d’Ormesson

At birth, we board the train and meet our parents.
And we believe they will always travel with us.
However, at one station, our parents will get off the train,
leaving us alone to continue the journey…
As time passes,
other people board the train.
And they will be important: our siblings, friends, children,
even the love of our life.
Many will resign (even the love of our life)
and leave a greater or lesser void.
Others will be so discreet
that no one will realise they have left their seats.
This train journey will be full of joys, sorrows, expectations,
hellos, goodbyes and farewells.
Success is having good relationships with all passengers
as long as we give the best of ourselves.
We don't know which station we will get off at.
So let's live happily, love and forgive!
It is important to do this, because when we get off the train,
we should leave only beautiful memories for those who continue their journey...
Let us be happy with what we have and thank the heavens for this fantastic journey.
Also, thank you for being one of the passengers on my train.
And if I have to get off at the next station,
I'm happy to have walked part of the way with you!

Obituary


A mother is so many things. 
it’s told with the heart, 
like a large bouquet of roses
it’s part of happiness.

Her husband: Jean Marie Spozio

Her children:
Nathalie Zbinden-Spozio et Pierre-Eric, Tramelan
Patrick Spozio and Fanny, Rossemaison
Philippe and Miriam Spozio, Great Ayton UK

Her grandchildren:
Christophe and Loriana Zbinden, Julie and Nicolas Widmer, Tiffany Spozio. Florine and Pacal Guelat, Shawn Spozio and Amelia, Luca Spozio and Catie.

Her Great grandchildren: Oceane, Livya, …,

Her sister, brothers, and their families in California

Her daughter in law and family: Francoise and Neil Cartledge, Melbourne

Along with relatives and friends, announce with sorrow the passing of

 

EMMY SPOZIO


Who passed away suddenly following a brief hospitalization in her 82nd year.


The celebration of her life will take place on Tuesday 19th December at 13h 30 in the Chaliere chapel in Moutier.
Emmy rests at the Chaliere cemetery pavilion in Moutier.
Rue du Petit-Val 4, 2740 Moutier, 16th December 2023
 

Her life began in Indonesia, on the island of Java.
She goes through the Netherlands to then arrive in California. 

 

Emmy was born on the Indonesian island of Java on September 7, 1942, to a Dutch father and a mother of Indonesian origin.  

Her first name wasn't Emmy, it was Emma! 
Her full name was Emma Augustina Geertruida Maria Heyman.
  
She was the penultimate of a family of 9 children. She only had one sister and had to “fight” with 7 brothers. All great Dutchmen, very athletic and footballers, with whom she shared the passion and practice of this sport.  
Her first ball game was football.  
Her two mother tongues, Dutch and Javanese.  
  
At the time, Indonesia was still a Dutch colony.  
But in 1950, it became independent following the revolution. This event leads them to reach the Netherlands, not by train, but by boat. At the time a journey of several months.  
  
It was there, in the Netherlands or rather in Holland, as she said, that she continued her compulsory education, without ever missing a single day of school due to illness, she proudly told us.  
In her entire life, we hardly remember seeing her sick.  
  
In 1961, his older brother, who worked in the navy, discovered the California Eldorado. It motivated the whole family to move there. Not by boat, nor by train, but by plane. 

She finished her schooling there, in English, her third language.  
 

From Indonesia to California

THE meeting and arrival in Switzerland.

Love me tender - Elvis

It was there, in California, that in January 1962, at her workplace, she met a young Swiss who had come to practice his talents as a lathe machine technician.  
  
He also came with his skis to trace a few curves on the snowy slopes of the distant Californian mountains (yes, there are some, right next door, barely 1 hour away).  
  
Unfortunately, this handsome man does not yet speak English... but German.  
Fortunately, in the Netherlands, German, ultimately a language not too far from Dutch, is learned at school. It was thus her 4th language.  
  
She has no trouble understanding the word "einladen", hence the invitation offered to her by this handsome tanned man.  
Here they are, both on the same train for a very long journey.  
  
Very quickly she wanted to present her conquest during a family reunion.  
20 people were all gathered in the main room when her Romeo entered. Coming back from a day of sculling in the Californian snow, he had on his ski boots (which looked like thick leather walking shoes). Arriving and walking at pace using long strides, no doubt in a hurry to see his sweetheart, he tripped his feet in the carpet to finish his run flat on his stomach in the middle of his completely stunned future in-laws.  
  
I'll let you imagine the gliding flight and especially the landing of a suitor disguised as a skier amidst worried, then amused looks.  

 Following the return to Switzerland (of her future ski teacher) and certainly with the authorization of her brothers, it was in April 1963 that she joined him in Switzerland for the first time.  
Just for a week. 7 days, but only 6 nights, she specified!  
  
Having landed at Basel airport, it is via the Moutier gorges that she arrived at his village. It's here! She exclaimed with fear when she saw the Moutier sign.  
You don't pay attention to it, but every time I pass by, I think about it and will continue to smile at this story.  
Indeed, the panel is placed at the narrowest place in the Moutier gorges. Frankly, the narrowness of the place is enough to worry even the most open-minded about the prospect of taking up residence there.  
  
A few months later, during the winter of 1963-1964, she returned for two weeks. The story does not specify, this time, the number of nights.  
  
The reception takes place again at Basel airport. At the time, we waited for passengers almost at the foot of the plane. A long wait, even very long when no one comes out and the long-awaited passenger does not appear. To stand a hunter up would be the last straw.  
  
But after many endless minutes, here is Mademoiselle who shows up. After landing, she took the time to make herself beautiful (which frankly wasn't necessary according to the main witness).  
  
At the end of 1964, she made another trip to Switzerland, this time, it was going to be necessary to play strategically to not let her leave again.  
  
But during the flight, her plane caught fire and had to crash land near Newfoundland in Canada.  
When she told us this story, our questions were whether she had been scared. Her answer ‘’no, not at all’’. Her philosophy was: what's the point of worrying if nothing can be done about it!  
This philosophy applies to opposite situations. She also told us, why worry if there is a solution, we just must apply it.  

Her lover, very impatient to find her (we understand) had come to wait for her in Amsterdam, the last stopover before Switzerland. It was there that he heard the news of this near accident. The telegram informed him of an arrival at 3 o'clock in Amsterdam, without giving further details. Without information or a telephone number, the meeting was difficult to organise. Finally, love would bridge the gap and allow this meeting on the tarmac of Amsterdam airport, ... it is indeed 3:00 a.m. Once on the tarmac this time, he did not have to wait long to see emerge from the cabin a huge Mexican hat under which the beauty was hiding.  
   
Barely arriving in Moutier, she took part in her first Alpine club indoor training. She enters the field in the middle of a football game, catches a ball in the air with her foot and with a masterful scissors kick, scored a goal under the stunned gaze of everyone.  
Moreover, believing that "wife" was her nickname, everyone called her that for two years, even though it was the sweet little nickname normally reserved for his darling.  
Then it was the first ski lesson, at the Graitery mountain. On an almost flat section, she puts her skis down and... watches them slide away (at the time, there was no ski binding brakes).  
  
A few days later, she climbs the Raimeux in touring skis, via the Gore Virat, and had to cross, in mountaineer mode, the large snow cornice which gives access to the plateau on which the chalet is located. Finally, the day's train stops at the 1st farm and that's where she dozes off on the ‘Kunscht’ or ‘bench stove’.  
  
Then everything comes together!  
The famous strategy works wonderfully. Emmy becomes pregnant.  


The story goes that it was in the middle of a tennis game that she announced to her future husband: “I think I’m pregnant.” The latter then addresses Father Brahier, at the time a missionary in Tibet, but back for a while in Switzerland wearing his long dress, who is mowing the tall grass in the field just behind the tennis courts. The future couple ask him to lead the wedding ceremony. 

It’s July 24, 1965, right in the middle of the holidays. There was urgency. The ceremony takes place in the very beautiful and modern church of Vicques.   
  
As my grandmother said: ‘’your father wanted to marry a good skier... he ended up marrying a woman who had never seen snow’’. 
 

Arrival in Switzerland

There she is, Mum- the prettiest and kindest Mum.

Here the train sets off again and all the anecdotes follow one another.  
For example, to welcome her family who are coming to visit their new El Dorado, she would like to accommodate them in this beautiful hotel, with all its beautiful flowers in the windows, in the middle of Moutier.  
Um... but no,...’Hotel de Ville’ means ‘town hall’.  
  
She also saw, that summer, that a film had been showing at the local cinema for 3 weeks. It must be good, she said. Its title is “Relache” meaning there are no showings
  
But the months pass and the first wave arrives on October 21, 1965 - Here is Nathalie.  
  
Followed, less than 11 months later - I did not count the number of nights - followed by Patrick, on September 26, 1966.  
  
As for the Tsunami, he arrived on December 22, 1967 and it was Philippe who was the ‘terror’.  
  
My sister and I are lucky to have him as a little brother. Indeed, if he had been the first, my parents would not have taken the risk of having a second child! 
An uncle to whom I read this paragraph yesterday spoke of ‘Monster’ rather than Tsunami 😉.   
But over the years, he has become an adorable chick.  
  
She therefore became a professional mother while contributing to the running of her husband's business.  
She learned French at the same time as her children.  
French is therefore her 5th language.  

When she was telling us off in Dutch, we didn't understand anything, but we knew it was to be taken very seriously.
It was also in this mother tongue that she sang nursery rhymes to us to calm us down or amuse us.
This custom continued through the generations, and today, it is her great-granddaughters to whom we sing her nursery rhymes.
I remember she drove a car the size of her large family, a MINI Cooper. At the time, it bore their MINI name very well. 
When the last of us started school, we worried that she would be bored at home alone. That is what she led us to believe for a long time. 
What can we say about her cuisine, sometimes Dutch, sometimes Indonesian. 
We enjoyed satay, spring rolls, bami-goreng, soy chicken and chili or peanut butter sauce.  
She introduced us to lots of exotic fruits, even the Migros salespeople asked her for advice on how to prepare and eat them. 
Almost once a year, we had a visit from our grandmother from California. As we had an uncle who worked at Matel, she came with 2 large suitcases full of toys. We were among the first children in Switzerland to have the new Barbie for Nathalie and Scalextric set for the boys. 
 

A very pretty mother

An ultra-sporty life.

She started playing lots of different sports: tennis, basketball, then volleyball, which would take a big place in her life. But also, more Swiss sports like cross-country skiing, alpine skiing and ski touring.  
  
In her volleyball team, she was old enough to be the mother of all the players on her team!  
  
In tennis, she won several tournaments and the Jura County championships in women's doubles with Nane.  
  
Professionally, she works with and supports her husband in his craziest projects. In fact I'm using euphemisms here, both for the word "support" and for the word "crazy."  
  
  
As if the daily work was not enough, as if the daily sport was only a warm-up, the holidays had to be SPORTY. The thing that no one does. For nearly 2 decades, vacations rhymed with trekking. No, not a day trip. But the complete back packed (15 to 23 kg) to explore the Alps or the Ticino mountains for several days, in complete autonomy.  
  
My brother and I were able to accompany them a few times and we made incredible memories. Our sister also got into it, in another style, a little later.  
  
Well, it must be admitted that almost every year, there was still a break in the middle of the holidays.  
  
This break was necessary to participate in Sierre-Zinal (Running race in the Alps). She will participate 6 times and the final time at the age of 60. 
  
These trekking holidays are the most relaxing for the mind. It’s a real quest for the essential. Find your way, find water and flat ground for the night, eat what you have, a piece of cheese, some dry bread, sleep on a 5-millimeter-thick foam pad, wait for the first rays of the sun to warm you up in the tent, to get out of your sleeping bag. But it also means finding yourself in the middle of a Ticino storm, having lightning strikes a few meters from you and managing your vertigo. Emmy did it all with a smile - except for the vertigo, undoubtedly a Dutch heritage.  

Accomplished poly-athlete